Youth. The first time -- Over the oceans and through the woods -- The whole hot summer -- Bounce babe -- Mama bear -- Girl on the road -- Research shows : not just girls -- The visitor's spot -- The second time -- The chauffeur -- Research shows : one out of five -- Forbearing the muck -- Negotiation -- The end of the continent --
Adulthood. Double-edged sword -- Thick walls -- Frayed by tears -- The third time -- Research shows : why it's hard to tell -- The crooked little house -- Indecision -- The envy of others -- Telling my parents --
Family. Butterfly stories -- Pocket knives -- What should you tell? -- A new kind of sense -- Research shows : causes of pedophilia -- Shifting statutes -- Nice to meet you -- Telling a therapist -- Asking -- A well-reasoned argument -- Telling my dad.