Introduction. For one, it's all about you -- What's happened to you. Diagnosis: the day your life changed forever ; The forgotten parents: left behind in the autism wilderness ; The roller coaster effect: understanding your emotions ; The five stages: dealing with your reactions ; Nuclear side effects: believe it or not, this is normal! ; Your triggers: what sets off nuclear side effects ; Your own diagnosis: autism parents' spectrum disorder -- How to adapt to your new life. What now? addressing your new reality ; Family impacts: how autism affects everyone ; Helping yourselves: family summits ; Life together: you and your child ; Managing expectations: be positive but realistic ; You are an A+ parent: take pride in your family ; The fix-it tour: answers, not cures -- Building your autism battle plan. Battle plan? yes, because this is war! ; Start with yourself: shift your mindset and know you can win ; Your and your partner: co-supporters & team leaders ; You and your autistic child: the battle of the bond ; You and your other children: autism's sneak attack ; You and your family and friends: don't let the bonds break ; You and your child's education: don't be overwhelmed ; You and your advisory council: tapping your power resources ; You and your battle plan: be the general -- Conclusion. Did I tell you how amazing you are? Take a bow: you deserve it!