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"A beacon of truth and wisdom for the abused and a help in their healing." -- Scot McKnight and Laura Barringer, authors of A Church Called Tov"Reading this book . . . will change you forever, for the better." -- Rachael Denhollander, speaker, victim advocate, and author of What Is a Girl Worth?"Sincerely thoughtful, incredibly practical, and truly compassionate book on abusive systems and the consequences of cover-ups." -- Christina Edmondson, PhD, cohost of Truth's Table podcastMaybe you don't know for sure: all you know is something feels off when you think about a certain relationship or interaction with an institution or organization. You feel alone and confused -- but calling it "abuse" feels extreme and unsettling, a label for what happens to other people but not you.