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Have you found yourself wilting in midlife, and wondering what you might do to flourish in your remaining years? Have you lost your way in the midlife maze due to a significant loss? Did you lose your job or desired career advancement? Did you separate or divorce? Did your last child leave home? Did your family experience a virtual storm of bankruptcy or lose your life savings in a financial meltdown? Did you or someone in your family experience the loss of good health? Or did you weather the death of a family member, partner, or friend? Your loss story is personal. Your path through winding passages during midlife is unique. Perhaps the most important encouragement for your grieving process is to know this simple fact: grieving is a natural healing response to loss rather than a pathological experience.
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Born between 1946 and 1964, the baby boomers bloomed, well most of them. The generation following the Boomers (born between 1965-1981) , Generation X, germinated and grew. Well, most of them. Have you found yourself wilting in midlife, and wondering what you might do to flourish in your remaining years?
Has parenting challenged you? Many of us lack appreciation for our childhoods and the complex lessons we gather from them until we have a child of our own. Lamaze classes do not cover parenting technique. In fact, my Lamaze classes did not even mention the possibilities that my husband and I encountered in the labor and delivery of our first child. I wrote It Takes a Child to Raise a Parent to compile the developmental knowledge I wish I had when I first gave birth. There are few parenting classes anywhere in our educational programs. From 30 years of practice as a school psychologist and family therapist, this book is a user-friendly guidebook taking readers from the parent preparation developmental stage (yes, this means sex) to grandparent development.
Perhaps you have lost your way in the midlife maze due to a significant loss. Did you lose your job or desired career advancement? Did you separate or divorce? Did your last child leave home? Did your family experience a virtual storm of bankruptcy? Or did a real storm -- a tornado or hurricane -- demolish your home? Did you or someone in your family experience the loss of good health? Or did you weather the death of a family member, partner, or friend? Ready or not, many changes flood midlife. I lost four precious family members in midlife. LOSS was a major topic for many of my clients in my family therapy private practice. I wrote Midlife Maze -- A Map to Recovery and Rediscovery -- to describe a path forward after experiencing loss by viewing broken dreams as fertilizer for new dreams. Life is precious. Every day matters. In order to really thrive, you need a purpose, a kind of self-investment.
