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An intimate memoir in essays by an award-winning Israeli writer who travels the world, from New York to India, searching for love, belonging, and an escape from grief following the death of her father when she was a young girl This searching collection opens with the death of Ayelet Tsabari's father when she was just nine years old. His passing left her feeling rootless, devastated, and driven to question her complex identity as an Israeli of Yemeni descent in a country that suppressed and devalued her ancestors' traditions. In The Art of Leaving, Tsabari tells her story, from her early love of writing and words, to her rebellion during her mandatory service in the Israeli army. She travels from Israel to New York, Canada, Thailand, and India, falling in and out of love with countries, men and women, drugs and alcohol, running away from responsibilities and refusing to settle in one place. She recounts her first marriage, her struggle to define herself as a writer in a new language, her decision to become a mother, and finally her rediscovery and embrace of her family history - a history marked by generations of headstrong women who struggled to choose between their hearts and their homes. Eventually, she realizes that she must reconcile the memories of her father and the sadness of her past if she is ever going to come to terms with herself. With fierce, emotional prose, Ayelet Tsabari crafts a beautiful meditation about the lengths we will travel to try to escape our grief, the universal search to find a place where we belong, and the sense of home we eventually find within ourselves.Advance praise for The Art of Leaving "Candid, affecting . . . [Ayelet Tsabari's] linked essays cohere into a tender, moving memoir." - Kirkus Reviews (starred review) "Ayelet Tsabari's memoir is a passionate account of the pain, fire, and fury of adolescence and young adulthood, the search for a sense of belonging, and reconciling the disparate parts of our lives and ultimately ourselves." - Camilla Gibb, author of This Is Happy and The Beauty of Humanity Movement "Ayelet Tsabari is a fierce-tender writer. Her work is an enchanting mix of vivid anecdote and vigorous insight - spanning generations and geographies, glittering with humor and heart." - Kyo Maclear, author of Birds Art Life: A Year of Observation
About the Author
AYELET TSABARI was born in Israel to a large family of Yemeni descent. Her first book, The Best Place on Earth won the Sami Rohr Prize for Jewish Literature and the Edward Lewis Wallant Award and was long listed to the Frank O'Connor International Short Story Award. The book was a New York Times Book Review Editors' Choice, a Kirkus Review best book of 2016, and has been published internationally. Excerpts from her memoir, The Art of Leaving, have won a National Magazine Award and a Western Magazine Award in Canada, and The New Quarterly 's Edna Staebler award. In 2014, she was awarded a Chalmers Arts Fellowship. She is a graduate of the Creative Writing MFA Program at Guelph and teaches at the University of King's College's MFA in Creative Nonfiction, and at the University of Toronto's School of Continuing Studies.
